For women who give a lot

Nobody asked what you wanted.So you stopped asking too.

You had a life to hold together and people who needed you, so the question went quiet. Not gone, just quiet. And now there's something under the good life you've built, that you'd never say or ask for out loud, because doing so feels ungrateful, scary, or both.

ClubMäksē is where it's safe to explore what's missing. It's a different conversation, one you've never had with yourself, with women who are having it too.

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Who we are

We've spent twenty years learning the shape of what you can't name.

It came from sitting across from thousands of women who had done everything right and still felt off, and hearing the same ache underneath every one of them. It was never a matter of trying harder or doing more. What we found was that nobody had asked them about their own lives like the answers mattered.

So we built the place that starts with you. Where the questions go first and the plan comes after. Where you're around women who are in it too, and it's fine if you show up tired, unsure, or halfway through a hard season. Most of us did.

What you get

Your monthly workbook

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"Where am I still holding myself to rules I didn't write?"

Every month, one focus area to help guide your growth and a printed workbook built around it. Questions you can't answer on autopilot, in an order that takes you somewhere. Most women tell us they had to put it down and come back. That's the point. It's built to be felt, not finished.

Live training + coaching

A live training each month to open the theme, and live Q&A with certified coaches for whatever it brings up. Come live or watch when you can. Nobody's tracking attendance. Replay's are available in-app, and a private podcast replay is available for Quarterly members.

The women

A private community, off social media, where nobody outside can see a thing. Weekly goal-setting and reflection calls, social mixers, and Camp Mäksē every summer to remind us we're allowed to have fun. It's the kind of honesty most of us don't get in real life anymore, with women in every decade who talk to each other like people who've been through it.

Your free planner (quarterly plan)

An A5 undated quarterly goal-setting planner, shipped to you, your choice of cover. It's the place the workbook's questions turn into your actual weeks. Undated, so it starts when you do.

Four years of past themes (quarterly plan)

The Learning Library, back to 2022. Boundaries, money, communication, rest. Skip to the one your life is asking for right now. Plus the Clubbies-only podcast feed for the days you'd rather listen than watch.

Your coaches

Facilitated by Sierra Friend Founder and Certified Life Coach and a team of certified life coaches who've each done this work on themselves first.

Clubbie perks

First look at new MakseLife products, member discounts, and the occasional guest session with someone worth hearing from: therapists, somatic practitioners, meditation teachers, authors on the topic we're in that month.

Two Ways to Join

Monthly or Quarterly

Most Clubbies choose to join us quarterly. It's the better deal, and it's the only plan that comes with the Learning Library, the podcast feed, and your free planner.

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Quarterly

ClubMäksē Membership

$199 / 3 months
  • Private ClubMäksē app, available on iOS, Android, and desktop (nothing lives on social media.)
  • Monthly live training and workbook
  • Monthly Q+A
  • Weekly live events, challenges, and socials
  • Plus first look at new MäksēLife products, member discounts, and special guest sessions throughout the year!
  • The Learning Library: Four years of workbooks and trainings, sorted by what you're going through. Boundaries, money, rest, a hard season. Go straight to the one your life is asking for today.
  • Clubbies-only podcast feed of all live events so you can listen when it fits your schedule.
  • Free quarterly goal-setting planner (your choice of cover)

Your Free Planner:

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Quarterly goal setting + a compact weekly layout

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Renews every 3 months. Cancel anytime from your account.

Your email invite and getting-started checklist after you join

Monthly

ClubMäksē Membership

$75 / month
  • Private ClubMäksē app, available on iOS, Android, and desktop (nothing lives on social media.)
  • Monthly live training and workbook
  • Monthly Q+A
  • Weekly live events, challenges, and socials
  • Plus first look at new MäksēLife products, member discounts, and special guest sessions throughout the year!
Join monthly, $75

Renews every month. Cancel anytime from your account.

Your email invite and getting-started checklist after you join

Secure checkout on makselife.com. Your email invite and getting-started checklist arrive after you join. Membership terms: ClubMäksē Terms.

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From the community

Clubbies, in their own words

Real Clubbies, in their own words, first names and last initials only. The Learning Library Irma mentions comes with the quarterly plan.

"Even when I feel like things are falling apart in some ways, it helps to join in and refocus on the positives and what's working [...]"

Lisa W., Clubbie

"Hi! I've learned how to speak about myself and my needs much more clearly."

Emma G., Clubbie

"I just wanted to say how loved I have felt in this group already. [...] From the coaches responding and giving resources to the other clubbies welcoming me, thank you so much. I feel like I've found my planner peeps."

Carolyn R.

"Its easy and calming and so rich. Never met a group of ppl so genuinely supportive and interested in what we share."

Jayshree N.

"Love having access to previous month themes as I'm working at my own pace."

Irma L., on the Learning Library (quarterly plan)

"Such amazing questions that are pushing me to think about who I really am and what I really want. I have had to pause to collect myself a few times already."

Nilam K.

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Fit check

Is Club for you?

Come as you are. Tired, unsure, mid-season, doing it scared. Nobody here needs you to have it figured out. When one member turned thirty and asked the group for advice on anything they wished they'd known, she heard from women in every decade after hers. That's what this room is.

You'll recognize yourself if you've ever thought

  • Why am I exhausted all the time?
  • Why don't I feel excited about my life anymore?
  • I don't even know what I want.
  • I have a good life. Why does something still feel off?
  • I keep starting over.
  • I know what I should do. I just don't do it.

And you've probably already tried

  • A new planner every January.
  • The 5am routine that lasted until February.
  • A challenge with a number in the name.
  • An accountability group that turned into one more place to fall behind.
  • Being harder on yourself, on the theory that it would finally work.

Club isn't any of those. None of them asked you a single question about your life. They asked you to change. This asks you to notice. That's a different kind of hard, and it's the kind that holds.

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FAQ

Still have questions?

How much time does it take?

One live training and one live Q&A a month, plus as much of the community as you want. A few minutes with your workbook each week, more if it pulls you in. It was built for women who already have full weeks, because that's who we are too.

What if I fall behind?

There's no behind. Club runs year-round, every theme stays in the Learning Library, and the workbook waits. If you miss a month, you didn't fail anything. You had a month. Club is about how your life feels, not how it looks, and that includes how you show up here.

What if I'm not a "group" person?

Most Clubbies would have said the same. The community is private, off social media, and nobody's tracking who posts. Some women are in the app every day. Some read quietly for months and then say something only when it feels right. Both count.

What if I can't make the live sessions?

Come when you can. Replays are available on all trainings and live events (Hey, #teamreplay!). Also, on the quarterly plan, every training and Q&A replay lands in the Clubbies-only podcast feed, so you can catch up on a walk, in the car, or wherever your week has room. Nothing's lost if you miss the live.

What if I join partway through a month?

You start with whatever theme is running, and the community is open every day. On the quarterly plan, four years of past themes are yours from day one, so you can go straight to the one your life is asking for.

When do I get access?

Right after checkout, your invite to the private Club app arrives by email, with a getting-started checklist to walk you in. Your free planner ships separately if you choose quarterly.

Can I cancel?

Anytime, from your makselife.com account. Your membership renews automatically ($199 every three months or $75 every month) until you do.

Is it private?

Yes. Club lives in its own app, not on social media. Only members can see what's posted, and nothing leaves the room.

Is this therapy?

No. Club is coaching, led by Sierra Friend, Certified Life + Business Coach, and a team of certified coaches. If we think you'd be better served by a therapist, we'll say so and help you find one.

Something we didn't cover? Email hello@makselife.com. Someone from our team will take great care of you.

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From the founder

From Sierra

I've been a life coach for over twenty years, and I've spent most of them building tools: planners, workbooks, systems that meet you where you are.

I'm deeply proud of them. I also know their limit.

A planner can ask you a good question, but can't hold space with you while you answer it, and it can't be there the next morning when the old rules come back louder than what you just learned.

That's why Club exists. It's the practice room, where you get to try on what's true for you before you have to carry it out into a life that's used to the old version of you.

I built it the way I did because I've needed this type of support in my own journey, and couldn't find it.

I gave my twenties to performance and it took full burnout to find out who I was underneath the accomplishments.

I've been the stay-at-home mom doing everything for everyone else, and last on my own list. I've questioned rules I was supposed to keep, and lived the consequences, and I'd do it again. Last year we sold everything and moved our family to Costa Rica, because that was the honest answer to a question I'd finally allow myself to ask, and we've never been happier.

I tell you this so you know I'm not asking you to do anything I haven't done. If I could question it, so can you. And in Club, nobody will make you feel foolish for trying.

You'll be safe with us. Come see.

xx Sierra

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Our Saying Yes wall. Each note is a Clubbie naming something she's finally giving herself permission for.
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Stop building the life you're supposed to want.Start building the one that fits.

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